The Queen's Presence (Farewell, My Queen)

… the characteristic aura you encountered, on coming into the Queen’s presence, indeed, as soon as you stepped into the atmosphere of her Household, was one of gentle kindness. And to anyone who was also familiar with the Households of Monsieur the Count de Provence, or that of Madame, the Count’s Wife, or those of the King’s other brother, the Count d’Artois and his wife, the difference was quite remarkable.
At home in her own place, the Queen avoided giving orders. She would suggest, mention, ask for each thing as a favor that someone might care to do for her and for which she would be ever so grateful.

--Farewell, My Queen by Chantal Thomas